I know many people who either disagree with my views on spirituality, or who are so afraid of my activities and views that they will not even open my website. They do not know what I do or believe, but they know it is “wrong” and they stay as far away from me as possible.

I am quite OK with that – my mission is not to convert the world. We all have our own beliefs, and some people have more fears and prejudices than others to overcome.

For me it is wrong to try and convince or convert other people. However, there are practical situations where my beliefs are tested. I love these situations, because if my beliefs do not pass the test, then I have to search further for the truth and dig deeper until the situation makes sense to me.

I stay away from Western doctors and medication, because I have researched the topic and understand the dangers that the pharmaceutical industry expose us to. When I have an ache or pain, I find the metaphysical cause, deal with it and make the changes that are required in my thinking and my lifestyle. That is my belief and it works for me.

Somebody close to me believes that the doctor is there to give prescriptions that takes aches and pains away. Now different doctors give different prescriptions that result in, in my opinion, a dangerous chemical cocktail. From a distance I can clearly see that the result of this cocktail in an old, unwell person is increased delusions and dementia. But in that situation I am not a doctor, I am not even a Christian, and I live on the other side of the world, so my opinion “does not count”.

Do I step back and say that I will not convince other people of my beliefs? Or do I step in and say stop the madness and for once listen to me?

I did act. I asked questions and I was promised answers – they will talk to the doctor. This will not change their worship of the doctor as the one who brings relief, but at least the doctor will have to provide some answers and re-think those prescriptions and the side-effets. I will ask questions until I get answers that make me sleep at night. And I accept that someone who has never taken ownership for his body and thoughts will not do it now to please me – especially when he no longer has the clarity of mind to have even a simple conversation. If I insist on taking all the medication away, it will be seen as a loveless act.

The other thing I do is send unconditional love and healing – I do not need permission or explanation to do that, and I know that no matter what is said on the surface, spiritually we speak the same language of Love. And it is possible to neutralize the medication by focusing on his good health. Nobody can prevent me from doing that and I know it works – so I have to work harder with meditation and healing.

Spirituality has to work when we want to save the planet, as well as on a day-to-day basis. Being up in the clouds only works up to a point, and then we have to practice what we preach – or change our preachings.

Are you one of those people who will believe miracles only when you see them?

It should be interesting to keep a record of every miracle you see. Notice how long you have to wait from one miracle to the next.

If you want to shorten the time between miracles, try to turn your approach around.

First believe in miracles, then see how often they appear.

We all like to day dream, probably because the place we go to when we day dream is always a beautiful place.

Why is it then that we also always jerk ourselves back from a day dream into ”reality”?

Have you ever wondered how your life would be if you could actually live those day dreams?

Would you like to try it?

When you have a day dream, make a few notes of what it was about.

Leave it for a while, and then read your notes again.

Then put a plan in action to bring that day dream closer to reality.

Have you had the experience where you head for conflict with a person, like a car without brakes going downhill?

No matter what you do, that conflict will take place.

Such conflict situations always happen so that you can either stand firm or eat humble pie.

The way you choose to deal with the conflict will determine what wisdom you will gain from the situation.

Will you say things and regret them afterwards? Will you stand firm and stay with your convictions? Will you stop and listen to the other side, or will you bull-doze the other party into agreeing with your view?

Ensure that you choose your actions from Love, not from ego.

Have you noticed that the louder you talk, the less you use your brainpower?

It is impossible to think straight about anything while you shout.

The best way to deal with conflict is to find wisdom from that quiet place inside of yourself and share it with Love.

Love and Light
Elsabe
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Sometimes it is good to stay the same.

Most of the time it is better to change – especially when it comes to outdated beliefs and one-sided perceptions.

If you cling to thoughts that no longer serve you, there is a difference between your inner world and your outer world.

This causes you to be ”torn apart”, and you complain about stress, tension, depression and numerous other ailments.

The world will not change to accommodate you. What do you need to accept rather than resent?

Love and Light
Elsabe

Have you noticed how some people embrace new technology, while others complain even about necessary technology?

This resistance against change relates not only to technology, but to anything which requires us to change our routine.

We do not like to change because change means the neurons in our bodies need to talk to each other in a different way.

Change means re-wiring our brains. The wiring in a building needs to be upgraded regularly, or it will become dangerous. Our brains also need to be rewired regularly or we become a danger to ourselves.

Whenever I hear people singing the praises of positive affirmations, I often also hear the fear and doubt in their voices.

They expect the words of the affirmations to rescue them and change their situation. There is some truth in the saying “If you cannot make it, fake it” but that is the long route.

The short route is to name your fear or doubt. Then find the side of that fear or doubt that you have denied up to now.

The result is your own wisdom that comes from inside of you. That is your truth. Once you have found your own truth, you will not even need to repeat it – you will just live it. Your truth will be like breathing – natural and part of you.

Affirmations are someone else’s truth. They don’t take your fears and doubts away.