I Love Bullies

21st Jan 2010



Hello lovely people

One of my life themes is learning to deal with bullying. I have had to deal with this since birth, at work, in personal relationships and with friends.

As with any other victim, I took all this very personally and had no idea what I had done to deserve their treatment.

It took me years to discover the reason why I was bullied. Once I had mastered that, I understood what people were doing to me and why, but that did not took the pain away. I still cringed at every attack, and afterwards reminded myself that it was not necessary for me to endure this any longer.

Imagine my surprise recently when I was confronted in a confined space by a violent man and I barely noticed him. The incident stuck with me for days before I realised the significance of it.

Click here to read the full story of the encounter

Please leave a comment if you feel inspired.

Love and Light
Elsabe

PS: I am a professional transition coach. I help individuals and businesses to achieve their personal and commercial objectives.

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Is the Secret Causing you Stress?

11th Jan 2010



Hello lovely people

Why the Secret Causes Stress

We are weird creatures. We spend 1% of our time listening to the quantum vibration, 45% of the time creating our own stress and disappointment, and 50% of the time searching for a culprit.

There are at least three reasons why the Secret will not work.

The process of getting the Secret to work is quite simple: feel the quantum vibration, convert the vibration into a thought, express the thought in words and in action.

Step one is always perfect – we know when we feel the quantum vibration which creates the conditions for creation. After that the trouble starts – that is the trouble we create ourselves. We take one look at this perfect quantum vibration and we say “yes, but” and “what if”. By the time we have said that, we have already chosen how we want to let that perfect vibration materialise.

Then we spend our time and energy proving ourselves right, and we say the Secret does not work.

For the full article, read http://www.elsabesmit.com/why-the-secret-causes-stress/
Please leave a comment if you feel inspired.

Love and Light
Elsabe

PS: I am a professional transition coach. I help individuals and businesses to achieve their personal and commercial objectives.

What is the one thing which is consuming all your energy at the moment?

Visit http://www.elsabesmit.com for a FREE new start audit and a FREE Food for Thought subscription


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